Tuesday, April 21, 2026

POV: My Point of View

 POV: I'm a houseWife & a stay-at-home Mom & my days look like this when my husband is not around (outstation for days)

6.10 am: Bekal sekolah anak pertama

10.51 am: Let them watch 90s cartoon (slower-stimulation) show to reset their ability to focus

12.37 pm: Simple lunch/dinner sebab makan sorang je uhuu


7.47 am: Ayah takde, Ommi hantar pagi2 angkut sekali 2 ketoi tu

4.23 pm: Anak kedua yang sangat mencabar menjaganya. Harini terkencing kat tilam, lepas tu termuntah pulak masa tengah syok main. Kacau baby sampai nangis. Macam2 ya.

6.56 pm: Supposed to be my chill time with my baby girl but my 2nd born decide to make "onar" at the living room that makes me cried

9.41 pm: The kids are finally asleep and I see a beautiful crescent moon out the window

10.28 pm: Living room reset. Toys in the basket. Nothing on the dining table. Switch off tv because tv deserved rest too. No clutter allowed. Everything has their own 'home'. Lights off & lampu raya on because it's pleasant to the eyes 🩷

10.55 pm: Kitchen night reset. Sinki clear. Table top dilap. Sampah dibuang. Kitchen appliances disusun semula. Unplug all the electrical appliances. Because waking up in a tidy home calms my nervous system. Tidy je, not perfectly clean. Kitanya takdelah perfectionist sangat. Kadang tu ada je pejam sebelah mata. Janji tak selerak.

11.22 pm: Bila dah ada anak kecik ni, dapat solat dengan tenang tu pun rezeki tau



11.35 pm: Clean my face with micellar water. Sheet mask on for 20 mins. Brushing my hair slowly like Disney princesses. Apply lotion on my hands, feets and elbows. Perfume sikit. Self-care to fall in love with myself again 🩷

12.01 pm: Phone left in the other room to let myself having complete rest, no doomscrolling before sleep. Good night 💤