POV: I'm a houseWife & a stay-at-home Mom & my days look like this when my husband is not around (outstation for days)
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| 6.10 am: Bekal sekolah anak pertama |
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| 10.51 am: Let them watch 90s cartoon (slower-stimulation) show to reset their ability to focus |
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| 12.37 pm: Simple lunch/dinner sebab makan sorang je uhuu |
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| 7.47 am: Ayah takde, Ommi hantar pagi2 angkut sekali 2 ketoi tu |
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| 4.23 pm: Anak kedua yang sangat mencabar menjaganya. Harini terkencing kat tilam, lepas tu termuntah pulak masa tengah syok main. Kacau baby sampai nangis. Macam2 ya. |
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| 6.56 pm: Supposed to be my chill time with my baby girl but my 2nd born decide to make "onar" at the living room that makes me cried |
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| 9.41 pm: The kids are finally asleep and I see a beautiful crescent moon out the window |
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| 10.28 pm: Living room reset. Toys in the basket. Nothing on the dining table. Switch off tv because tv deserved rest too. No clutter allowed. Everything has their own 'home'. Lights off & lampu raya on because it's pleasant to the eyes 🩷 |
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| 10.55 pm: Kitchen night reset. Sinki clear. Table top dilap. Sampah dibuang. Kitchen appliances disusun semula. Unplug all the electrical appliances. Because waking up in a tidy home calms my nervous system. Tidy je, not perfectly clean. Kitanya takdelah perfectionist sangat. Kadang tu ada je pejam sebelah mata. Janji tak selerak. |
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| 11.22 pm: Bila dah ada anak kecik ni, dapat solat dengan tenang tu pun rezeki tau |
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| 11.35 pm: Clean my face with micellar water. Sheet mask on for 20 mins. Brushing my hair slowly like Disney princesses. Apply lotion on my hands, feets and elbows. Perfume sikit. Self-care to fall in love with myself again 🩷 12.01 pm: Phone left in the other room to let myself having complete rest, no doomscrolling before sleep. Good night 💤 |
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Alhamdulillah hari² berjalan lancar walaupun dgn ketiadaan encik suami
ReplyDeleteTak lancar sis. Hiccups here and there. Tapi alhamdulillah I did it.
DeleteYa Allah bagusnya malam semua berkemas. Hehe. Alhamdulillah.
ReplyDeleteKalau tak buat night reset, pagi esok jadi moody.
Deletekak SA yang xde anak kecik ni pun susah nak manjakan diri..balik kerja kang masak, gosok baju, gosok tudung untuk esok...mandi, solat, makan lepas tu tido..pagi 4.30am dah start rutin dah..mandi, siap2 pi kerja..5.15am dah gerak pi keja...huwaaaa......nak manjakan diri tak dan...weekend lain plak kisahnya
ReplyDeleteBetul tu kak SA. Ada hari tak sempat mcm ni. Saya terlelap dah hahahaha.
Deletesemoga terus kuat... struggle memang terasa lagi2 bila housewife..kena singkirkan apa perasaan dan perkara yang tak perlu...kita buat cara kita..menjaga hati dan mental sendiri
ReplyDeleteThat's why I go back to blog because here i find peace. Terlalu banyak benda yang menyakitkan bila kita 'duduk' kat tempat ramai orang. Kat sini takde orang kenal saya personally and no one can really judge.
DeleteGood luck and teruskan usaha yang terbaik buat anak2 ..
ReplyDeleteDah folllow pula di blog ni..
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for visiting me and for your kind comment on my blog, and I am coming here to meet you.
ReplyDeleteI saw in your response to someone who commented and what you said is absolutely true. If we don't do a night reset, we will be moody the next morning. You are right.
Warm greetings from Montreal, Canada.
Absolutely 💯 Night reset can help so much to regulate my mood in the next morning 🩷
DeleteBetul..ammi pun suka bersihkan rumah memalam dulu lepas anak tidur sebab bila bangun bagi tengok rumah kemas tu rasa lega otak nak start our days
ReplyDeleteKannnnn 🩷
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